The great writers once said that :-
“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”
But according to me “Fear is that part of our body that lies inside us in dormant phase and prevent us from facing this cruel world”.
I don’t know why but today from the birth till the death every single person face his/her fear every day but never got the solusn of removing it from hi/her life…
From the birth every single child becomes afraid as he steps up in his new phase of life just because he never get that freedom of deciding and finding the solution of his problem on his own and finally get dependent on his parents..
Then as he enters in school life his fear grow more stronger than him and becomes hurdle in his success..
Then he enters college life and finally by the time he enters in the real life when his parents will no longer be his backbone he collapses bcz he never got the chance to prove himself..
The fear is more dangerous than getting ill bcz fear is indirectly the main source of every disease as it affects physically, socially and mentally… Even when a boy/girl decide to marry his/her own choice partner at some point their foot get deeply embedded in the earth just bcz they get scare of family and society..
Don’t u all think that instead of making your children weak and dependent on u, making yourself dependent on others you all should raise your choice, confidence, your freedom and more importantly you all should “STRENGTHEN YOUR SOUL” so that the fear dies and your identity rises up and people get the chance to know you…
So Get The F…ING Fear out of your LIFE…
Something is present beneath you
That provides u the infinite power so that u can
React and face any unfavorable condition that is
Extremely difficult for others and will allow u to change the law of
Nature which indirectly brings the mighty
God on the Earth and they makes u strong to
Tolerate those condition and allows you to
Harbor their powers so that one man can make difference…
Can anybody tell me the title of this short poem???
Relation today is something that matters a lot for youngsters. Today maximum percentage of boys and girls are in single as some need support, some for true love and some for time pass so to show their status in public. But many of the relation doesn’t last long because in enjoying both the partners forget that there are some things that holds them in tight knot and if they don’t pay attention on those then they instead of sharing same path will sooner walk on their own path with the ghost of partner.
So to avoid this you all should need to know things about your relation.
- Comfort. One should find out whether his/her partner is comfortable in an event or not. It is because many get too involved in enjoyment that they forget the comfortable level of their partner.
- Understanding. It plays a vital role in the relationship. The relation needs it because without it you may enjoy it but never go far on the road of the relation. It is mainly important for those who try hard to live their life with their partner and share life for lifetime.
- Trust. It is the base of any relation as every relation starts with the truth. If you have started your relation with a lie then you should confess it as soon as possible if you are afraid to lose him/her. To be in a relation without a lie is difficult but as all say “To come in a relation it is easy but to maintain its integrity it is the toughest part of it”.
- Physical Relation. It’s the most important need in a relation because it brings two souls closer. But the most important thing is that if your partner is uncomfortable then you must cement your steps in that feeling. It is usual feelings in males but if your partner is afraid of that then you don’t. Because against her desire will diminish the respect you gained from her.
- Respect. It is been well said that “To gain respect it takes lots of time but to break it takes only one mistake and a second.” It is necessary to keep constant because the moment you lost it your relation becomes one sided until and unless he/she finds someone better than you.
- Likes and Dislikes. After spending time with the partner everyone got the access to know the likes and dislikes. It is not that important but to give surprise, bring smile on your partner face, to make him/her overcome the past it is important as it help in deviating the mind. One smile can change the way of living of any relation.
- Care. Every girl desires that she get someone who cares more than her parents because after marriage she gives herself to her husband and his family. Relation without care will only bring pain and unhappiness in it. A girl can only expect from his partner but cannot teach him about how to do care because the care comes from the way of love you do.
- Support. As time keeps on running and life is full of surprises and nobody knows when they gonna need support in those condition where everyone leaves in darkness. So support your partner in every condition in any means because love second name is “Support”.
- Time. Relation is all about Time because the more time two hearts spend together more the relation get stronger and more strong the relation is no external darkness can apart the love birds.
- Love. The relation without love is like a body without soul, world without air, morning without sun, night without moon etc. The more one give love to his/her partner, less the time they take to become two bodies with one soul. Everybody must be aware about Shah Jahan and Mumtaz, Heer-Ranjha and Romeo-Juliet love stories; they all are the inspiration of love. Love freely without thinking about the others and love madly so that you become example like these famous personalities became.
So to make your relation strong you should get to know all these points. Don’t be afraid after coming in a web of love because the most beautiful thing god has made.
Inner peace is composed from two different words i.e. “Inner” which means “Inside” and “Peace” means “Freedom from disturbance”. When these two come together they make beautiful word which defines “State of mind and soul at serenity with enough knowledge and understanding to keep oneself strong from stress”. The “God Buddha” is the constructor of inner peace. Inner peace is as beautiful as like a shining pearl but to have it you have to dive deep in the ocean, same is with inner peace because to have it you should have strong dedication, mind at peace without any distraction. Today the world is getting restless with every passing time and to maintain the rhythm of one’s life a man should have an Inner Peace. But then also after knowing about all a man is a slave to the surrounding. Today as always man falls into two categories “Slave and free man”. Man who doesn’t give themselves two-third of a day becomes slave to the surrounding. Surrounding is nothing but the evil souls surrounding you in their trap so that they can make you do what they want.
Inner Peace is linked with the Inner Soul. Those who sell their inner peace ultimately become the Puppet of the society. With the ongoing development of the world the life of a man is also on a track of the same. But as a man moves forward in his life the need and demand of it is becoming like an Infinite Universe whose end is not known to anyone. When a man wake up from a dream and move to his daily work he compare himself with the person above him and then the only he remember is the comparison. Shannon L. Alder had said “The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, education and your parent’s wisdom” and these are truly said because now every single person compares himself with the other. With everyday comparison he slowly and slowly enters in the world of the darkness where he is the body under the control of the dark spirit. The youngsters are the best example of it. When a boy who thinks that drinking and smoking is not good for the health but when he comes in a group in which the enjoyment of life starts with smoking and drinking and ends with it he will say no once, twice and thrice but with continuous encounter one day that boys with his morals will finally try it once not because he changes his rules but because the environment set by that group brings his inner peace in the darkness where he can’t feel it and finally become slave to them. If we talk about the girls, every girl is the “Beauty with Brain” but with the comparison the brains doesn’t listen to them and the beauty will finally become the major reason for becoming the slave. Dalai Lama said “Do not let the behavior of others destroy your Inner peace.” Inner peace is must and comes the moment you don’t allow others to control you, your morals, your soul and your life. Your Personality development is the most important because Personality develops where comparison leaves off so “Be unique, be memorable, be confident and be proud”. Why to become slave of the society when you have the capability to bring them on their knees. Life is all about second chance but if a man destroys his inner peace into pieces mirror then the god will also refuse to give you the second chance. A man is filled with anger, jealousy and other negative feelings but these feelings will never get a man on the right path, it will always lead him to the path with unknown goal.
Today as man grows older he spends his most of the time in doing a Puppet role. Nobody knows that whether we are lucky to take rebirth in humanity so if you are depressed you are living in the past, if you are anxious you are living in the future and if you are at peace then you are at peace. John Chrysostum had quoted “Happiness can only be achieved by looking inward & learning to enjoy whatever life has and this requires transforming greed into gratitude.” Therefore practicing meditation for a minute will help you regain your inner peace and will ultimately helps you to make you a free man.
To conclude with the topic a man is not a slave till he listens his mind, feels his heartbeat and don’t let his soul die. Inner peace is not a tough thing because it is already situated deep inside your body; one’s used to see it to get above from the world evil spirit society. A man should follow the steps set by the God Buddha on the sand.
In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Seven Days.”
You wake up tomorrow morning to find all your plans have been cancelled for the next seven days and $10,000 on your dresser. Tell us about your week.
Firstly I will definitely find my mind busted up and nothing will going into my mind. Whole world I will find rotating around me but definitely as this trip will going to be my memorable trip I would continue it on my new plans but will not going to cancel it..
My seven days plans will start with the most beautiful scenario of Ladakh with an amazing bike ride on my Bullet 350. With my gangs beside me I will track down the hills and off course will flow with the flow of the water.
The next day I will ride with my boys to the Jammu and Kashmir the heaven of the Bhopal where every single person dream, to travel either with their love partner or with the groups so that they will not leave any mountain for a second..
After such an amazing trip in Ladakh and Jammu I will move look forward to the Shimla known for the beautiful nature and environment where every couple dream for their honeymoon.. Honeymoon is such a romantic word so why to leave romantic place to explore if got a chance.
The “Dream City of India Mumbai” will going to be my next destination. Everyone dream to shake hand with the “The Amitabh Bahcchan” and most of the celebrity who are now the inspiration for most of us. Juhu Beach, Shopping will definitely be the next step because after spending huge amount on the trip if I don’t shop anything then it will be against my rules.
After meeting the legend my heartbeat will be on cloud nine and the demand for more fun will going to be on top of the mountain so my last step on final seven day I will plan to Goa. How can anyone miss Goa as it is the dream of every youngsters to party on the beach, Rome around every corner of the disco and definitely the beauty of the beach with the outfit of Goa will be my last step.
After this entire planning if my all plans got cancelled because of some bullshit then my mind will got burst up higher than the hot air balloon… I will be restless about all this but I will go for it as soon as possible.
Source: Equality is everyone’s right